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Multiple award-winning singer, Tuface Idibia has revealed that he has no intention of bringing more children into the world but rather, he wants to focus on his wife, Annie and his family. He said this over the weekend at Gbenga Adeyinka's Laffmatazz in Ibadan. While performing, the musician kept using spiritual words like "receive it" and "take it" and when asked if those word meant he was planning to have more kids, he quickly declared he was done having kids.

I have always joked that my folks would one day marry me off to some stranger who is willing to have me without so much as collecting a dowry. Of course, I know my family members would never do such. They’ll defend my honour till they draw their last breath. I am very sure of that. Unlike me though, some women aren't so lucky. Their folks would practically marry them off to anyone who would have them. And sometimes, these unlucky women don’t have a say in this matter. I have seen cases of women who were forced to say “yes” to a loveless marriage, just because they’re getting “too old.” And in some ways, I understand what they must have been going through.

Speaking in his church yesterday, Prophet TB Joshua has said he saw a vision that the girls were released. He also urged Nigerians and their parents to pray for the release of the girls, but above all he says God has spoken that He will release them.  “They have to be released. That is the voice of God. I saw a vision where some of these girls have escaped and they are trying to find their way from the forest to the town. In the midnight, some of these girls ran away. The ones that are still under their custody – God said  He will release them. This is the voice of God. God has spoken – these children must be released. We can’t wait to see them. God has marked them that nothing should happen. Continue after the cut.

                                 Luxury designer Malivelihood posted samples of some of the gifts guests received at President Jonathan's daughter's wedding which took place in Abuja today. One of the gifts was a gold-plated iPhone. You all know how much a gold plated iPhone costs and every guest that came got one? I wonder what those those Youth Movement people will say  again, Lol. Continue to see more photos..

Naija's bad girl singer Maheeda is on a roll and nothing anybody says, according to her, is ever going to stop her. Please read excerpts from her revealing interview with  TheNet.ng  about how she got pregnant at 17, was offered N2m to leave her baby, her growing up an orphan, and how she too now gets paid to attend events.  Plus she is addicted to sex. na she talk am oo hehehe You just got back from a foreign trip, Was it for business or pleasure? It was for business. I went for a birthday party of one big shot and all I needed to do was just sit down and cross my legs and then I got money in my account, which was pretty cool. Did you get to perform? No. I just sat down, sipped some champagne and made some money. I just went to cross my legs and made $3000. You recently shared a story about your daughter where you said things were pretty rough at  the beginning. What’s the story? I got pregnant for my boyfriend about 13 ...

This very interesting and so true article was written by Obehi Agbonifo. Obehi writes a wonderful blog - www.Bride2Mum.com. Please do check it out. But in the meantime, enjoy this and let's read if you agree with her. I have forgotten where I saw this but it goes thus: "if you know how many of your boyfriend's friends and family members knew you were not the only girl but yet called you in law...." Hence my candid advice to every lady here: please whenever anyone calls you 'Our wife' or 'in law' and you are not yet married to the guy, please politely say "No dear I am not your wife or in law yet" because sometimes these people know what you don't know and they are the first to tell a story of how you answered in pride when they called you in law...Before I am misquoted, please if it is your boyfriend's dad or mum calling you in-law, just smile because it will be downright rude.

Note: This is a guest post from David Damron of  The Minimalist Path I wake up every morning knowing I can be something more than I was yesterday. I know I can be anything I want to be as long as I focus on that goal. I attempt to make every day another step towards succeeding at my dreams. There is no better day than today to start being the best  you . Every day that you have, you have the opportunity to make incredible things happen. Sure, there are almost 7 billion people on the Earth, but you can still make a difference either in your life or another. What I am asking of you is that you make one small attempt to make yourself better in some way for the next 363 days and, hopefully, continue this lifestyle change. Before we get into that, let’s answer a few questions…

If Gen.. *coughs* catch you ehn…. Lolzz, eja nla pictured above holding a dancer’s butt at the last day of The Lagos countdown event. What do you have to say about this?